Sometimes he may not know if he's being too pushy or texting too much -- he might overthink it and not text you at all, which could leave you wondering. But, if your guy does something nice for you, it never hurts to talk about it or snap a photo of the impromptu dinner he had arranged when you got home from work.Guys like to feel affection too, and if he's really into you, he will be thinking about you. It will show him that you appreciate him and are willing to share your appreciation and love for him with the world. Women know better than anyone that really listening isn't just a passive activity. Sometimes a guy has something important going on in his life, is working towards a goal, or is just stressed out about work.While he should be able to read your feelings from your actions, some guys need a more direct approach. If you're riding shotgun, reach over and lightly scratch the back of his head for awhile. If you have a man who is mature enough to tell you to go have a good time, text him every now and then during the course of the night just saying hello. That being said, relationships are a two way street.It will make him smile and let him know that you're still thinking about him when you're out. You don't have to jump on him in public, but small things like taking his hand while you're walking, hugging him in line at the grocery store, or hooking your arm into his as you walk into a party, will make him feel close to you and that you're proud to be with him. The good news is, it doesn't take grand romantic gestures to make a man happy, just slip a note in his pocket to find during the day, or kiss him on the cheek while you're watching TV. So, remember that not everyone is going to be like you.Just because you are comfortable using words over text doesn’t mean that other people that you date will feel the same way.
Older relationships and marriages can often fizzle in the affection department and leave you to wonder whether he loves you or not.Again, you probably text all the time and are very adept at using words but this may not be the kind of person that you are dealing with. They may be able to play around with words and banter.However, when it comes to showing affection over text, it is a lot different.’ Well, of course, in an ideal world I want to answer that question by saying, ‘Let’s do champagne at Le Meurice followed by the Opéra, topped off with a horse and carriage ride that would leave me right at the foot of my door.’ Once my head stops spinning and I’m brought back to the present moment, however, I have once made the regrettable decision of simply answering, ‘Oh, I don’t mind. ’ My date then suggested going for a drink at a bar in Le Marais.This sounded perfect until I Googled the bar and saw it was listed as, ‘Un établissement gay et lesbian’.If I’ve learnt anything during my two years in Paris, it’s that there are certain measures, habits and role reversals we women might feel the need to adopt when playing the dating game with French men.